The online dating match that turned out to be gay is FULL-ON gay! He checked in with me a little bit ago and has moved to be with his new lover. The disturbing part is that he is still on the dating site meeting women so that he can play on the side. He told me that it turns him and his partner on for him to be dating women and them not knowing that he's gay.
Ethical issues? Let me post the ones I can think of:
1. Women are being tricked and used for the entertainment of a gay couple.
2. Health/Wellness issues
3. Dishonesty
For one, I am happy that he has found himself and is living freely. I am not, however, happy that he is capable of "dating" women as entertainment or some silly joke. The health/wellness issue, for me, is that even if one of them doesn't have a contagious disease, one of them could develop it. But what if one of them does?
How fair is it that the woman is being tricked and wasting their time dating a guy that is gay? How fair is it that she could possibly end up with the cold (or worse) that his boyfriend has?
So, next time you're on a date ask him, "Is your boyfriend watching from another table or possibly waiting at home to hear all the juicy details?"
Sorry, boys! That's what we're dealing with out here in Singleland. Don't be offended, just answer truthfully.
Muah!
XOXO
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